The Fascinating Tale of Wedding Customs and Traditions
Do you feel that spooky vibe in the air? Yep, it's that time of year! Speaking of spooky, have you ever thought about where our favorite wedding traditions and superstitions come from?
Weddings are a mix of cultures, beliefs, and personal touches. That's why we have all these traditions and superstitions. And let's admit it, we often join in with little to no clue about the cool backstory! So, even if you're not a superstitious soul, it's a fun journey to uncover their history and understand why they've stood the test of time.
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Do not see the bride before the wedding: Despite being often ignored nowadays, particularly by couples keen on a "first look" photoshoot, this quirky belief hails from the days of arranged marriages. Back then, it was considered "bad luck" for the bride and groom to set eyes on each other before the wedding. The idea behind this was to prevent the groom from getting jittery and having second thoughts upon seeing his yet-to-be-revealed bride before the ceremony. No sneak peeks allowed!
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White wedding dress: White wedding dresses weren't always the rage. Queen Victoria started this trend when she donned a stunning white satin gown at her wedding to Prince Albert. It was all about flaunting the most luxurious dress you had, and guess what color Queen Victoria's was? Yep, that's right—white, which also represents purity.
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Wearing a veil: Back in the day, brides would don veils to dodge those pesky bad vibes that could ruin the big day. The veil also showed off the bride's pure and modest side. Oh, and it gave grooms a delightful surprise in arranged marriages. Quite fascinating, isn't it?
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Crying on your wedding day: Don't hold back those tears of joy on your wedding day! According to tradition, shedding tears as a bride means you've got all your tear quota used up for a blissful marriage. Better get that waterproof mascara and let the emotions run freely for a happily-ever-after without the tears!
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Cake Cutting: Cake cutting is more than just dessert time! Traditionally, the groom feeds the bride, and then she returns the favor. It's like their sweet promise to support and care for each other in this new chapter of togetherness.
When planning your wedding, the list of "must-do's" can be overwhelming, but remember, it's your day and your rules. It's worth giving a thought to some age-old wedding traditions, just to see if they fit your style! Happy Halloween!