How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Gift?

With the gift-giving season right around the corner and wedding invites rolling in, you might be wondering how much is just right for a wedding gift. Don’t worry, you’re not the only one! Whether you're a lifelong friend, a colleague, or a distant relative, the question of how much to contribute can feel tricky. You want to pick something meaningful without overdoing it or going too small, and balancing your budget with your desire to give something special is key.

The good news is that there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—wedding gift spending really depends on your relationship with the couple and your personal budget. The goal is to give a gift that feels thoughtful and personal, no matter the amount. Here’s a simple guide to help you out!

For Close Family and Friends: If you're a close family member or best friend, it’s appropriate to spend a bit more—$250 or more. You can go for something special or even chip in with others for a group gift. But don't stress, it’s the thought that counts, and there are plenty of great options in this range!

For Acquaintances or Co-Workers: When you’re attending a wedding for someone you don’t know super well, $100+ is a good amount to spend. A gift from their registry or something meaningful will still show you care without breaking the bank. Group gifts are also a great way to pitch in without spending too much.

Keep the Couple’s Registry in Mind: Check the couple’s registry for price ranges that work for you. It will often include a honeymoon or home fund that you can contribute to. If you're unsure, a group gift or a cash contribution is always a solid choice. Also, consider the wedding style—more formal weddings may suggest a higher gift budget, while casual weddings are a little more relaxed.

It’s the Thought That Counts: No matter what you spend, it’s the thought behind the gift that matters most. A meaningful card or something personal can sometimes mean more than the price tag.

Photo: Joseph Esser Photography

So how much should you spend on a wedding gift? It depends on your relationship with the couple and your budget. Whether you go big or keep it simple, a thoughtful gift will always make them feel special.